One fact that we have to complement is that, in our unconscious mind, we cannot distinguish between a wish and a deed. We are all aware of some of our illog...

Assessment: JAMB UTME - Use of English - 1991 Subject: English Language

Question 1 Report

One fact that we have to complement is that, in our unconscious mind, we cannot distinguish between a wish and a deed. We are all aware of some of our illogical dreams in which two completely opposite statements can exist side by side – very acceptable in our dreams but unthinkable and illogical in our waking state. Just as our unconscious mind cannot differentiate between the wish to kill somebody in anger and the act of having done so, the young child is unable to make this distinction. The child who angrily wishes his mother to drop dead for not having gratified his needs will traumatized greatly by the actual death of his mother – even if this event is not linked closely in the time with his destructive wishes. He will always take part of or the whole of the blames for the loss of his mother. He will always say to himself - rarely to others - I did it. I am responsible. I was bad, therefore mummy left me. ‘It is well to remember that the child will react in the same manner if he loses a parent by divorce, separation or desertion.

Death is often seen by a child as an impermanent thing and has therefore little distinction from a divorce which he may have an opportunity to see the parent again.

Our unconscious minds and and dreams are alike in that
Answer Details
The passage suggests that our unconscious minds and our dreams are alike in that they can accommodate contradiction. In our dreams, we can hold two completely opposite statements at the same time without feeling the contradiction, and similarly, our unconscious mind cannot differentiate between a wish and a deed. For example, a child who wishes for the death of their mother will be traumatized by the actual death, even if the event is not closely linked in time with their destructive wishes. The child may blame themselves and say, "I did it. I am responsible. I was bad, therefore mummy left me." Similarly, a child may view death as impermanent and not much different from a divorce, where they may have an opportunity to see the parent again.

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