Abraham was referred to as a friend of God because he

Abraham is called a "friend of God" in several biblical passages (2 Chronicles 20:7, Isaiah 41:8, James 2:23). James 2:23 explains: "Abraham believed God, and it was credited to him as righteousness, and he was called God's friend." The foundation of this title was Abraham's unwavering faith and complete obedience to God's commands.

The most defining example of Abraham's submission is the binding of Isaac (Genesis 22), where God commanded Abraham to sacrifice his only son. Abraham obeyed without argument or refusal, demonstrating absolute trust in God. This total obedience without dispute is what distinguished Abraham's relationship with God and earned him the title "friend of God."

Fasting consistently and praying regularly are not highlighted as Abraham's defining characteristics in Scripture. Being blessed by God was a result of his relationship with God, not the reason for his title. Abraham's friendship with God rested on his faith and his willingness to obey without contention.