We can begin by grouping the first two terms and the last two terms together:
am + bn = a(m) + b(n) = (a+b)n - bn
an + bm = a(n) + b(m) = (a+b)m - am
Now, we can substitute these expressions back into the original equation:
am + bn - an - bm = [(a+b)n - bn] - [(a+b)m - am]
We can simplify this expression by combining like terms:
am + bn - an - bm = (a+b)n - bn - (a+b)m + am
am + bn - an - bm = (a+b)n - (a+b)m + am - bn
Finally, we can factor out the common factor of (a+b) from the first two terms and the common factor of (-1) from the last two terms:
am + bn - an - bm = (a+b)(n-m) - (b-a)(n-m)
Therefore, the answer is (a+b)(n-m) - (b-a)(n-m), which can be further simplified to (a-b)(m-n). Thus, the correct option is (a - b)(m - n).